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Anger Issues

Anger Management & Emotional Regulation Support in the Sutherland Shire

Everyone experiences anger at times, but when anger becomes difficult to manage, it can start to impact relationships, work and overall wellbeing.

You may find yourself becoming irritated more easily, reacting more intensely than you intend to, or struggling to calm down once upset. Sometimes anger feels explosive and immediate, while for others it builds quietly over time before eventually coming out.

At Carlie Jordan Clinical Psychology, we provide evidence-based support for adults and teenagers (15yrs+) experiencing anger issues, emotional dysregulation, and ongoing frustration across Miranda and the Sutherland Shire.

Understanding Anger Issues

Anger is a normal emotional response. It often appears when we feel stressed, overwhelmed, unheard, disrespected, or emotionally threatened.

The problem is not anger itself, it’s when anger becomes difficult to control, frequent, intense, increasing the likelihood of angry behaviours e.g. yelling, physically lashing out, which begins affecting important areas of life.

For many people, anger is connected to underlying stress, anxiety, burnout, trauma, or long-standing emotional patterns.

Signs Anger May Be Affecting Your Wellbeing

You might notice:

  • Feeling frustrated or irritated most days

  • Reacting quickly or intensely to situations

  • Difficulty calming down once angry

  • Saying or doing things you later regret

  • Ongoing tension in relationships

  • Feeling constantly on edge or overwhelmed

  • Holding onto resentment or anger for long periods

  • Anger affecting work, family, or social life

These patterns can feel exhausting and difficult to change alone, but support is available.

What Causes Anger Problems?

Anger can develop for many different reasons, including:

  • Chronic stress or burnout

  • Anxiety and emotional overwhelm

  • Difficult life experiences or unresolved emotions

  • Relationship conflict

  • Perfectionism or high self-expectations

  • Communication difficulties

Understanding what sits underneath anger is often an important part of creating lasting change.

How Therapy Can Help with Anger Management

Anger management is not about suppressing emotions or “never getting angry.” Instead, therapy focuses on understanding your reactions and developing healthier ways to respond.

In therapy, we may work on:

  • Identifying triggers and patterns

  • Recognising early signs of anger escalation

  • Building emotional regulation skills

  • Learning strategies to pause before reacting

  • Improving communication and conflict management

  • Managing stress and emotional overwhelm

  • Reducing guilt, shame, or regret following reactions

My approach is grounded in evidence-based therapies including CBT, ACT, and schema therapy, tailored to your individual needs and goals.

A Practical & Non-Judgemental Approach

Many people feel embarrassed or frustrated talking about anger.

My approach is warm, respectful, and focused on helping you understand what’s happening beneath the surface, without judgement.

Therapy is collaborative, practical, and aimed at helping you feel more in control of your emotions and responses over time.

Who I Work With

I support adults and teenagers experiencing:

  • Difficulty managing anger or frustration

  • Emotional outbursts or irritability

  • Anger linked to anxiety or stress

  • Relationship conflict related to emotional reactions

  • Burnout and emotional overwhelm

  • Long-standing emotional regulation difficulties

Appointments Available in Miranda & Online

I currently have availability for new clients.

  • In-person appointments in Miranda

  • Telehealth available across Australia

  • Referrals accepted via a Mental Health Treatment Plan (MHTP) or privately

When to Reach Out

If anger is affecting your relationships, confidence, work, or emotional wellbeing, it may be helpful to seek support.

Therapy can help you better understand your reactions and develop practical tools to respond differently.

Book an Appointment

To get started:

  • Call: 0434 036 267

  • Book online through the website

  • Or speak with your GP about a referral

FAQs About Anger Management

Can therapy help with anger issues?

Yes. Therapy can help you understand anger triggers, manage emotional reactions, and develop healthier coping strategies.

Is anger connected to stress or anxiety?

Often, yes. Anger can sometimes be a response to stress, anxiety, burnout, or emotional overwhelm.

Do I need a referral?

You can attend privately or access Medicare rebates through a Mental Health Treatment Plan from your GP.

Are telehealth appointments available?

Yes. Online appointments are available across Australia.